Stephen john alder born 19/8/57 in cambridge has 2 sisters and 1 brother also born in cambridge. He met my mum julie when she was at school and have been together ever since,they went on to have 3 children me (nicola) ,my brother gary and my sister hayley ,we also have children so steven had 6 grandchildren who all loved him very much,my dad was poorly for quite some time so we had many visits to the hospital ,it was his second home he had 2 stays in intensive care were it was touch and go but both accacions he pulled through fine.(he was a fighter)My dad was a joker he always made people laugh and had so many freinds and as a family we were all very close,but sadly on the 8/6/2007 he passed away unexpectly at home but very peaceful in his sleep ,he will be very sadly missed by us all we all love him so much he was a special husband dad and grandad xx R.I.P DAD XX